i am into ALL of this... red and i had already decided that garrus and steve would have a crewmate vibe as gods and it makes sense that that would extend to shepard, too!! especially with all of the leadership overlap and whatnot, i think they could really become good friends by understanding the burden of being the one in charge, even after the event

he probably can't drink anymore BUT he would still be happy to vibe with her and chat about this stuff and take her advice, as well as give some own in return. working partnership sounds perfect!! he'll really rely on her in that sense.

i'm definitely down for memories persisting after the event ends, as well!